Embracing obedience, living under authority, and relinquishing the desire to be the lead character in our own life-play are significant virtues. Alcoholics Anonymous says it this way: “First of all, we have to quit playing God. It doesn’t work.” That is why it's safer to serve than to command.
Many people comply with authority out of necessity rather than genuine desire, leading to discontent and dejection over minor issues. But true peace of mind is found in wholeheartedly submitting so that the love of God becomes prominent. Regardless of where you go, genuine rest is discovered in humble obedience to authority's guidance. AA continues: “We need to decide that in this drama of life, God is going to be our Director. He is the Principal; we are His agents. He is the Father, and we are His children. This concept is the keystone of a new and triumphant arch through which we are led to freedom.” Unfortunately, we are often led to believe that the pursuit of our own selfish happiness comes first. The selfish idea of pursuing change and seeking new surroundings in order to bring contentment has misled many.
Life demands an “it takes a village” approach. While everyone desires to follow their inclinations and is drawn to like-minded individuals, when God is present, there are moments when we must set aside our preferences for the sake of peace. Additionally, no one person possesses complete wisdom to have knowledge of everything. It's essential not to overly rely on your own opinions but be open to the perspectives of others. If, even when your ideas are valid, you accept another's viewpoint for the sake of God's love, your merit increases. It has often been said that it's wiser to listen to advice and accept it than to dispense it.
Furthermore, insisting on one's own opinion, even when it's sound, instead of agreeing with others when reason and circumstance dictate, can be a manifestation of pride and obstinacy.
Illustrative story:
In 2008 an organization was born that took the above-named principles and pursued them headlong: “I am Second” continues to this day. All it took was 20 short films that each captured the true and authentic story of an individual whose life had been changed because they let God be first. At the end of every story, the person summarized their new life with one singular statement: “I Am Second.” From NHL player Mike Fisher, Carrie Underwood, and lead guitarist from Korn, Brian Welch, you can find their stories and films here: https://www.iamsecond.com/
